So yesterday I started the new challenge. Main part of this challenge is to not criticize my husband. Easier said then done. After catching myself "correcting" and such various times I was starting to realize that I am a bit of a control freak. Really? I didn't realize it until now!! Also trying to maintain a positive attitude is harder than it seems too, I am an emotional person. Next was meditation, I did it, for ten minutes, but it was hard to turn my ever running mind off.
As for doing sweets for my sweet- I found some excellent advice and tips on www.lovingyou.com. They even have printables for you to print off! So I printed off a nice loving word search, and a certificate that said "world's best kisser" or something like that. It put a smile on a moody husbands face and I think brightened his day a little. I hope. One thing about Men- they are from Mars, therefore they don't share they emotions like women do. (At least the majority don't). Today I am going to give him a love letter that he can read before work, maybe to help get him in a good mood before working his butt off. Maybe saying something about appreciating all the hard work he does will remind him how much I care.
What are some things you do to show your special person you love them?
Missy I think this is great! I'm gonna have to read the book now. A wonderful idea to take such a positive approach to begin mending a relationship.
ReplyDeleteThanks! I know, I feel better too. I want to help those out there in my position as well!! Keep reading!
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