New Week, New Challenge! Relating with Mars..

So last week went alright...but overall I am feeling as though it was a bust. Sorry all. What I learned is sometimes I need to be more prepared.

This week the challenge is for anyone and everyone who has been in, is in, or plans to be in a relationship. After a suggestion from a great friend of mine I picked up the book Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. What a read! I cannot even believe how much this book makes sense! It explains the reason men and women think and act differently- and I feel as though my eyes have been opened. I don't want to talk so much about my personal life here in the blog but I feel it is essential to mention that my husband and I have been experiencing some issues, as every couple do at one point in time. This convinced me that with this weeks challenge I may be able to bring some light, information, and tips to help other couples. At least we can learn together.
First part of the challenge is coming from John Gray, the author of Mars and Venus. My job this week is to not focus on the negative. I must, according to Gray, "practice restraining from giving any unsolicited advice or criticism." Whew. That will be a hard one. Next I will visit various websites and find "suggested" ways to show my significant other I care. This will more difficult because of our odd situation, however, I will test out the methods suggested and at the end of the week report back to you, the readers, and let you know what worked and what didn't quite make the cut.
During the challenge I therefore must remain positive during the week, this is quite hard for an over thinker like myself, and I must surrender at least 10 minutes a day for meditation to help maintain a positive attitude.

Challenge Bonus: At least ONE TIME during the week I have to do something completely spontaneous and embarrassing for my husband. Oh dear! Can't take it back once I said it!!

Stay tuned for tips and tricks on how to keep the love alive in your relationship and also tips from John Gray's book!